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The menopause can cause a number of emotional and mental symptoms such as stress, anxiety and low mood, and it can also cause some women to act in uncharacteristic ways. A great word for this side of the menopause is the 'mentalpause' – find out more about this in today's blog.
A lady emailed me a few weeks ago and said that her doctor told her that she was in the mentalpause and I thought what a fabulous description. Because that’s exactly what the menopause is – a journey through both physical and emotional extremes with most of us not having a clue as to what is happening!
Falling hormones affect us in many ways. At the present moment there are at least 34 recognised main symptoms, with many women having unique symptoms that don’t always get recognised as menopausal.
Oestrogen, especially, is a mood enhancer and when the levels start to dip that can have a huge impact on our emotional state. Low mood, anxiety, mood swings, anger, frustration, impatience, absentmindedness and even depression can hit us really quickly, catching us unawares.
Suddenly, our ‘usual self’ disappears and it often feels like we have been taken over by some stranger who acts completely differently. This can be a real shock for our friends and loved ones as the person they knew suddenly starts to snap and snarl and work colleagues start to give you a wide berth! Some women decide to completely change their lives, even walking out of their relationship and leaving everyone stunned.
The hormonal changes in the menopause can stress the body itself tremendously. We are, in effect, coming off hormones that our body has been used to for many years and this decrease causes withdrawal symptoms just as if we were stopping smoking or coming off drugs of any kind. So, of course, our emotional self is going to be affected in some way as we go through this process.
We also have to realise that as women today we are forever busy, on the go and our minds are constantly whirring about what we need to do and – like an overworked computer – sometimes it just crashes. I was out for a family day recently and was chatting to one of my daughters and eldest grandson and was telling them that a little while ago I tried to put the box of washing powder and fabric conditioner in the fridge – you just know that moment when you suddenly ‘come to’ and go ‘oopps’. My daughter, who’s 35, said that recently she had poured orange juice onto her breakfast cereal instead of milk; and my grandson, who’s 19, said that he had gone to wash his dinner plate and found himself in the bathroom. Phew, so I am not going senile! Many of these so-called menopause moments are nothing to do with age or hormones but just the fact that our poor brains never get a moment’s peace!
So is there anything you can do for this mentalpause? Yes, believe it or not the stronger your body is the more easily it can adapt to these changes. Looking after yourself well, having a good varied diet which will give your body all the nutrients it needs at this time, plenty of rest and relaxation to allow the body time to rebalance, and sensible exercise to keep everything in working order can make a huge difference to the number and intensity of the symptoms you will get; and hopefully this will give you a more emotionally balanced and physically easier journey.
What strange thing did you do in the Mentalpause?
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eilish — 15.09.2017 21:15
Hi Eileen ,just want to say the taking menopause support supplements has made a huge difference to me, I feel absolutely brilliant in a matter of 2 weeks wish I had known sooner about these magic supplements xxxxx
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Eileen — 18.09.2017 15:36
Fantastic news!!
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Jenny — 23.06.2017 19:55
Can I take sage twice a day or can it only be the once?
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Eileen — 26.06.2017 09:55
Hi Jenny,
You can take sage tincture up to 3 times daily, and this is often useful if you are getting both hot flushes during the day and night sweats at night, as you can take the last dose before going to bed and protect yourself overnight.
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Janice — 06.04.2017 15:36
I had to quit my job and go to the doctors for help. That was back in Oct 2016, I didn't get much help and the mentalpause kicked in good and proper in December 2016. I finally had to take anti depressants and buy a mood light as I was driving my partner crazy. I'm still unemployed but i'm happy and now looking for a less stressful job to ease me back into the labour market.
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eileen — 07.04.2017 08:04
Hi Janice
Great to hear that you have managed to get this under control yourself. Good luck with your job hunting!
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